Busts vs Donks

Being a black (1/3 part) woman I have came across many black men that idolize the "big ass". I have several guy friends and I quote "thick with a fat azz is an ideal womanly figure in every ethnicity". So being a single woman I wonder hmm...is that the reason why I'm single? Because I don't have an "donk" it makes me unattractive to black man. Probably not. I believe its the shallowness of the man. Most of the women that I see have huge donks aren't even attractive.

What is the fascination with butts? You can't do anything with it but watch them move and shit out of. They don't even serve a purpose. Sure they are nice in a pair of jeans, but what else? I found out most women that have these "phat asses" get Brazilian Butt Lifts & implants in order to make it big. Hell I was even considering it. Not anymore. Why to appease a man that will only love me because my booty is bigger? Nah, I'll pass. Men say its nice to watch.... Something to grab on... Um okay, is that it? Take the picture to the right. Ms Buffie The Body, ofcourse she has a big booty but what else does she offer. Is she intelligent? NO. Can she hold a conversation? Probably about the most recent hip hop video she has done or maybe what celebrity she has slept with. Some that are reading this may deem me as a "hater". Never. I'm just trying to understand what the hype is about. Its kinda like the Natural hair vs. Relaxed/Weaved hair debate. Someone said straight hair is better than your own naturally curly hair.So you have women like Ms. Buffie the Body rocking weaves that cost more than some peoples mortgage. So here we go with another cliche that you ain't black or sexy if your waist isn't a certain size and butt a certain width.

Now to the left you have me... Please excuse the facial expression that is the side effects of my drunken birthday celebration, the diva really shines. Back to the subject at hand. As you can see I am blessed with the breasts and I love them. I consider myself a gorgeous woman. Plus I'm black... Well black, Puerto Rican, & German. FYI I don't have an "ass"!!! Does me not having an ass make me a less attactive woman than Ms. Buffie? Better yet do me not having an "ass" make me any less than an attractive black woman to a black man? I wonder. Fellas don't be shy to comment on this one. As much as you are to post and talk about women with the butt shots all over the internet....